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<\/a>D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je, abyste jim dovolili dosp\u011bt, nechali je vylet\u011bt z\u00a0hn\u00edzda a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 jim z\u016fstali nabl\u00edzku.<\/b> Je to podobn\u00e9, jako kdy\u017e se u\u010dily chodit. Tak\u00e9 pot\u0159ebovaly, abyste je pustili z\u00a0n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed a\u00a0nechali je pokusit se o\u00a0prvn\u00ed krok. St\u00e1li jste sice opod\u00e1l a\u00a0d\u00e1vali na n\u011b pozor, ale nechali jste je j\u00edt. Tak je to i\u00a0te\u010f, i\u00a0kdy\u017e je to slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\nT\u00edm, \u017ee se v\u00e1m va\u0161e d\u011bti vzdaluj\u00ed, a\u017e extr\u00e9mn\u011b se v\u016f\u010di v\u00e1m i\u00a0sv\u011btu vymezuj\u00ed a\u00a0jsou kritick\u00e9, ve v\u00e1s mimo jin\u00e9 vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed pot\u0159ebu pos\u00edlit va\u0161i autoritu a\u00a0p\u0159evahu. Ale bu\u010fte ti zralej\u0161\u00ed a\u00a0zkuste se nebrat tak v\u00e1\u017en\u011b<\/b>. V\u017edy\u0165 je to nov\u00e1, kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 role \u00a0pozn\u00e1vat svoje d\u00edt\u011b jako partnera v\u00a0diskuzi. \u00a0Nemus\u00edte se v\u00edc vymezovat a\u00a0ukazovat svou s\u00edlu, d\u00edt\u011b v\u00e1s u\u017e zn\u00e1 a\u00a0v\u00ed, jac\u00ed jste. Nepot\u0159ebuje zv\u00fd\u0161enou m\u00edru direktivity, pot\u0159ebuje, abyste p\u0159i n\u011bm st\u00e1li, ale nechali ho d\u00fdchat, abyste mu naslouchali, ale neodsuzovali ho, abyste ho prov\u00e1zeli, ale nevnucovali mu svou pravdu.<\/p>\n
Jist\u011b, st\u00e1le na v\u00e1s le\u017e\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnost za d\u00edt\u011b a\u00a0boj\u00edte se o\u00a0n\u011b. To je v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku, nevylu\u010duje se to. Udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic a\u00a0vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed jejich v\u00fdznamu ve spojen\u00ed s\u00a0naslouch\u00e1n\u00edm a\u00a0p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1n\u00edm autonomie dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho a\u00a0respektem k\u00a0jeho objevov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bta je tou nejlep\u0161\u00ed kombinac\u00ed pro zdrav\u00e9 a\u00a0vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 zvl\u00e1dnut\u00ed dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed jak v\u00e1mi, tak d\u00edt\u011btem.<\/p>\n
KDY A\u00a0KDE HLEDAT POMOC<\/b><\/p>\n
M\u016f\u017ee se st\u00e1t, \u017ee se jako rodi\u010de dost\u00e1v\u00e1te do situac\u00ed, kdy m\u00e1te pochybnosti o\u00a0tom, zda je s\u00a0va\u0161\u00edm d\u00edt\u011btem v\u0161e v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku. Za podstatn\u00fd ukazatel se v\u00a0takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pova\u017euje, jestli je dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b schopno b\u011b\u017en\u011b fungovat v\u00a0rodin\u011b i\u00a0ve \u0161kole<\/a> (samotn\u00e9 zhor\u0161en\u00ed prosp\u011bchu u\u00a0st\u0159edo\u0161kol\u00e1k\u016f ale nelze pova\u017eovat za trag\u00e9dii).<\/p>\n Jestli\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b nepln\u00ed sv\u00e9 dom\u00e1c\u00ed povinnosti, ned\u00e1 se s\u00a0n\u00edm na ni\u010dem domluvit, d\u011bl\u00e1 si, co chce, ani\u017e by respektovalo jak\u00e1koli pravidla, nekomunikuje s\u00a0v\u00e1mi v\u016fbec nebo pouze hrub\u011b a\u00a0odm\u00edtav\u011b a\u00a0za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te doma \u010dasto dramatick\u00e9 konflikty, nev\u00e1hejte s\u00a0vyhled\u00e1n\u00edm odborn\u00e9 pomoci. Stejn\u011b tak pokud zjist\u00edte u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed jak\u00e9koli <\/b>drogy<\/b><\/a>, m\u00e1te podez\u0159en\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b je pod vlivem z\u00e1vadov\u00e9 party, nebo zjist\u00edte, \u017ee <\/b>krade<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Pomoci v\u00e1m mohou na t\u011bchto m\u00edstech:<\/p>\n M\u00e1te-li d\u016fv\u011bru ve \u0161koln\u00edho psychologa \u010di v\u00fdchovn\u00e9ho poradce, m\u016f\u017eete se s\u00a0probl\u00e9my sv\u011b\u0159it tak\u00e9 jemu.<\/p>\n \u010cl\u00e1nek z\u00a0informa\u010dn\u00edho port\u00e1lu www.sancedetem.cz<\/a> p\u0159ipravila psycholo\u017eka Mgr. Milena Nov\u00e1kov\u00e1.<\/p>\n Tento text si kladl za c\u00edl povzbudit v\u00e1s, rodi\u010de, k\u00a0tomu, abyste nem\u011bli z\u00a0dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed strach. V\u011b\u0159te jim, v\u011b\u0159te sob\u011b. V\u00edte, co jste jim v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b p\u0159edali, a\u00a0sami jste ti, kdo je zn\u00e1 nejl\u00edp.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-komercni-sdeleni"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2537","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2537"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2537\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2537"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2537"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2537"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n
Ach, ty hormony\u2026<\/a><\/h1>\n
D\u011bti, dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a rodi\u010de<\/a><\/h1>\n
U\u017e zase n\u011bkde l\u00edt\u00e1<\/a><\/h1>\n
N\u00e1vod k sebepou\u017eit\u00ed<\/a><\/h1>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"