{"id":2527,"date":"2014-09-09T10:30:15","date_gmt":"2014-09-09T08:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/?p=2527"},"modified":"2014-09-09T10:30:15","modified_gmt":"2014-09-09T08:30:15","slug":"deti-dospivani-a-rodice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/deti-dospivani-a-rodice\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u011bti, dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a rodi\u010de"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Je toho hodn\u011b, co se m\u011bn\u00ed a\u00a0co je pro dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho jedince nov\u00e9. Nen\u00ed se tedy co divit, \u017ee je to na jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed zn\u00e1t a\u00a0v\u00e1s to m\u016f\u017ee p\u011bkn\u011b potr\u00e1pit. Va\u0161e hodn\u00e9, mil\u00e9 a\u00a0poslu\u0161n\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, ale i\u00a0va\u0161e zlobiv\u00e9 a\u00a0sv\u00e9hlav\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b se najednou prom\u011bn\u00ed v\u00a0osobnost, kter\u00e1 je p\u0159ecitliv\u011bl\u00e1, diskutuje v\u017edy a\u00a0o v\u0161em a\u00a0m\u00e1 p\u00e1dn\u00e9 argumenty, pt\u00e1 se po smyslu pravidel a\u00a0norem, pt\u00e1 se dokonce i\u00a0po smyslu \u017eivota. <!--more-->Zat\u00edmco d\u0159\u00edv bylo schopn\u00e9 br\u00e1t v\u011bt\u0161inu v\u011bc\u00ed tak, jak jsou, te\u010f je zpochyb\u0148uje a\u00a0hled\u00e1 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed v\u0161ude mo\u017en\u011b, i\u00a0tam, kde se v\u00e1m to zrovna moc nel\u00edb\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><b>Dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed je zkou\u0161kou rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 odolnosti<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed je najednou jaksi podivn\u011b extr\u00e9mn\u00ed, nep\u0159edv\u00eddateln\u00e9 a\u00a0jen t\u011b\u017eko na prvn\u00ed pohled pochopiteln\u00e9.<\/b> Nav\u00edc tr\u00e1v\u00ed v\u00edce \u010dasu mimo domov a\u00a0je ovliv\u0148ov\u00e1no nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi kamar\u00e1dy. Je vystaveno mnoha poku\u0161en\u00edm, kter\u00e1 se ho d\u0159\u00edve v\u00a0podstat\u011b nedot\u00fdkala \u2013 venku \u010d\u00edhaj\u00ed <a href=\"http:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/2014-07-jak-se-zachovat-kdyz-zjistim-napriklad-u-trinactileteho-ditete-poziti-alkoholu-ci-jine-drogy\/\">drogy, alkohol, cigarety<\/a>, lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed mohou cht\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edt, a\u00a0podobn\u011b.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mezi typick\u00e9 projevy v\u00a0pubert\u011b (obdob\u00ed od deseti \u010di jeden\u00e1cti zhruba do patn\u00e1cti let) pat\u0159\u00ed:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00e1 kriti\u010dnost, zejm\u00e9na ve vztahu k\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/cs.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Autorita\">autorit\u00e1m<\/a>,<\/li>\n<li>pot\u0159eba zpochyb\u0148ovat za\u017eit\u00e9 normy a\u00a0hodnoty a\u00a0diskutovat o\u00a0nich,<\/li>\n<li>hled\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00ed, lep\u0161\u00ed pravdy,<\/li>\n<li>\u010dast\u00e9 p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed o\u00a0sob\u011b,<\/li>\n<li>hled\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama,<\/li>\n<li>zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00e1 nejistota a\u00a0pochybnosti o\u00a0sob\u011b, o\u00a0vztaz\u00edch, o\u00a0sv\u011bt\u011b,<\/li>\n<li>pot\u0159eba n\u011bkam pat\u0159it, naj\u00edt si sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto ve sv\u011bt\u011b,<\/li>\n<li>zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fd z\u00e1jem o\u00a0vlastn\u00ed vzhled a\u00a0s\u00a0t\u00edm spojen\u00e1 pot\u0159eba l\u00edbit se, nosit hezk\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed, malovat se, barvit si vlasy a\u00a0podobn\u011b,<\/li>\n<li>pot\u0159eba samostatnosti a\u00a0uzn\u00e1n\u00ed osobn\u00ed autonomie a\u00a0svobody.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Na pubertu navazuje <b>obdob\u00ed adolescence<\/b> (zhruba od patn\u00e1ct\u00e9ho do dvac\u00e1t\u00e9ho roku v\u011bku), kdy se naplno projevuje <b>konflikt rol\u00ed \u2013 b\u00fdt zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd a\u00a0dosp\u011bl\u00fd versus poslouchat a\u00a0respektovat pravidla rodiny<\/b>. St\u0159edo\u0161kol\u00e1ci u\u017e jsou br\u00e1ni v\u00edce m\u00e9n\u011b jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed, ale zpravidla je\u0161t\u011b z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed z\u00e1visl\u00ed na rodi\u010d\u00edch nebo pe\u010dovatel\u00edch.<\/p>\n<p>\u010cl\u00e1nek z\u00a0informa\u010dn\u00edho port\u00e1lu\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sancedetem.cz\/\">www.sancedetem.cz<\/a>\u00a0p\u0159ipravila psycholo\u017eka Mgr. Milena Nov\u00e1kov\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Seri\u00e1l, kter\u00fd odpov\u00ed na ot\u00e1zky:<\/p>\n<p>V\u00a0\u010dem je \u010das dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd a\u00a0co to vlastn\u011b znamen\u00e1 dosp\u00edvat? Co v\u0161echno stoj\u00ed za obdob\u00edm zvan\u00fdm \u201epuberta\u201c a\u00a0\u201eadolescence\u201c? Mo\u017en\u00e1 se to zd\u00e1 na prvn\u00ed pohled jasn\u00e9, jen\u017ee pro\u010d tedy vznik\u00e1 tolik konflikt\u016f mezi rodi\u010di a\u00a0dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edmi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Je toho hodn\u011b, co se m\u011bn\u00ed a\u00a0co je pro dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho jedince nov\u00e9. Nen\u00ed se tedy co divit, \u017ee je to na jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed zn\u00e1t a\u00a0v\u00e1s to m\u016f\u017ee p\u011bkn\u011b potr\u00e1pit. Va\u0161e hodn\u00e9, mil\u00e9 a\u00a0poslu\u0161n\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, ale i\u00a0va\u0161e zlobiv\u00e9 a\u00a0sv\u00e9hlav\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b se najednou prom\u011bn\u00ed v\u00a0osobnost, kter\u00e1 je p\u0159ecitliv\u011bl\u00e1, diskutuje v\u017edy a\u00a0o v\u0161em a\u00a0m\u00e1 p\u00e1dn\u00e9 argumenty, pt\u00e1 se&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/deti-dospivani-a-rodice\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u010c\u00edst d\u00e1le &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">D\u011bti, dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a rodi\u010de<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3626,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2527","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hlidani-deti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2527","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2527"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2527\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3626"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domelie.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}